Learning to Deal With Others

I like to think of myself as a pretty easy going, likeable person that can see the good in just about everyone and every situation. And most of the time… I really am like this, it’s no lie. However, there are people and moments in my life that catch me off guard or rub the wrong way. Usually my eyes are a dead giveaway to these type of people and moments. You know, the deer in headlights gaze that is undeniable. My eyes cannot tell a lie, no matter how hard I try.

I usually ask myself “is it even worth getting along with this person? Will they even be in my life in the next few months or years?” Most of the time I think the answer is “NO”. But as I get older I realize the value of relationships and connections. Just because there are some people in the world that you do not get along with does not mean you need to instantly alienate them. You never know when you might need their help.

Now it’s about learning how to cope with people that I do not like. Putting on that smile and grinning to make it through the moment I have to share with them.

Getting older does have some benefits, but I sure do miss the days on the playground when you could ignore the mean girl on the jungle gym.

Cheers!